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“There is nothing in the whole universe that represents a threat to who you really are.”
“To encourage his students to empty themselves of false values, a teacher asked, ‘If a treasure chest is filled with stones, can you add jewels?’”
“Ignorance is inferior to intelligence. Intelligence is superior to ignorance.”
“The entire secret of real happiness is contained in the following truth: I am not my memories about myself.”
“Whoever is eager enough to find the secret kingdom will never fail in his quest.”
“Reach out! Within your grasp is that which you have been secretly yearning for all your life.”
“Get rid of any unconscious fear that the answers to life may not exist — for they do exist.”
Stop Being ‘Nice’ “I want you to see, as a daily exercise, what a petty annoyance you are to other people. You can’t see the big ones yet, go for the little ones. You interrupt people when they’re talking. You’re so compulsive, so eager to release your built-up tension over the years by being apart from Reality, that you interrupt them while they’re talking and that’s called being rude. You don’t know that you do this. You’re to make a long list of how you are a petty annoyance to other people. One little step at a time, you can’t take very much. How about having a sour face and manner? How about when you’re talking about yourself? You haven’t even started to witness the unfolding of your life because you carry a sign that says, “I am a nice person.” That means you’re spiritually asleep. You absolutely must drop all your phony idealistic self-images of you being nice or others being nice.”
Where’s the Problem? A thought comes into my mind that you have offended me, that you’re not treating me right. After all, you yelled at me. This thought tells me that I have a problem. No! The only problem is my idea that I have a problem with you screaming at me. This idea came into my mind and said, “You yelled at me. I have a problem. I’d better react to it — I’d better do something about my problem.” I grabbed the idea and believed in its charlatan message. Now if I yell back, then I have a problem. If I don’t yell back, I don’t have a problem. And I don’t have to yell back because I never had a problem to begin with. I just thought I did.
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